Saturday, August 1, 2009

Trust & Compromise

From blogs I read and from experiences I gained from the things happening around me,

I've just realized that many people actually understand the two important factors in a relationship.

Trust and compromise.

Without trust this is how it turns out,

Trust--->Doubts--->Negative imaginations--->Confusions--->Betrayal/Disloyalty

Without compromising with the other will end up like this,

Compromise---> Misunderstanding---> Fights/Argument/War---> Anger---> Hate

These two factors are interrelated with each other.

If i combine this two and both these factors failed to take place, it will look like this when we apply on the problems occurred between the couple,

Problems--->Compromise(failed)--->Misunderstanding--->
Fights/Argument/War--->Anger--->Hate--->Trust(failed)---> Doubts

--->
Negative imaginations--->Confusions--->Betrayal/Disloyalty

P/S : Well, once again please take note that the theory above might not be 100% accurate for everyone because it's still considered as a survey conclusion. I can explain in more detail about the points above if anyone does not understand, provided if you ask me. I didn't explain here because it may be lengthy if I do so. So I assume you all are smart enough to picture each point above in your mind.

In my opinion,

I think this is just simple logic that we should know whenever we are in a relationship. If not, then it means that they are not serious in it. Sometimes they just want to cuba-try or in some well-known cases such satisfying their own urge or desire for love(a.k.a. desperate for love), happened especially on people who cannot live a single life. They do not care who is their partner, as long as they receive love then it's sufficient. Most relationships like these end up being temporary, due to the absence of true love.



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